The IRS Gifting Trap: 7 Sneaky Ways the Government Still Taxes Your ‘Gifts’

Hello my friends,

I’ve sure you’ve heard the big estate planning secret that “estate and tax gurus” pitch at seminars and all over social media:

If you give away assets before you die, they get out of your estate and skip the big federal estate tax bill. Sounds like a sweet deal, right?

Wrong.

The IRS knew people would try this. That’s why they wrote Sections 2036 and 2038 into the tax code. These are often called the “string provisions” because they act like a sneaky, invisible string tied from you back to the asset you supposedly gave away.

If the IRS can find any thread of control or enjoyment, they yank that property right back into your taxable estate.

I wanted to make sure that is in big bold red letters because it happens more often than you think.

Here are the 7 biggest, nastiest traps related to these sections – the things everyday people do that accidentally hand the IRS a massive tax bill. This is how you think you’re being clever, but you’re actually getting seriously tripped up.

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Trap 1: The ‘I’ll Just Keep Living Here’ Gift (IRC §2036)

Scenario:
This is the most common mistake. You “gift” your house to your kids, but you never move out. You keep living in it, paying the utilities, and treating it exactly like your own home until you die.

The IRS Rule:
Section 2036 says if you transfer property but keep the right to “possession or enjoyment” of it for life, that full value snaps right back into your taxable estate when you pass away.

Takeaway:
You must genuinely give up all benefit of the gifted asset. If you gift the home, you have to start paying market-rate rent to the new owner (your kids) and make sure you document it like a real landlord-tenant relationship. If you don’t, the IRS wins.

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Trap 2: The ‘Secret Agreement’ Handshake (IRC §2036)

Scenario:
This is like Trap 1, but without the paperwork. You gift your vacation cabin to your daughter. You both have an unspoken, verbal agreement that you’ll continue to use the cabin for two months every summer until you die.

The IRS Rule:
Section 2036 is super broad. It doesn’t just apply to rights “retained under the transfer document,” but also to any “implied agreement or understanding” that you could still use the property or benefit from the income.

Takeaway:
Never rely on a private, unspoken deal. The IRS looks for actual behavior. If you keep using the gifted asset, they will assume an implied agreement existed, even if you both swear it didn’t. You lose.

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Trap 3: The ‘I Still Control the Trust Money’ Gift (IRC §2038)

Scenario:
You set up a trust for your grandkids, put a million dollars into it, and name an independent trustee. But the trust document says you, the giver, have the power to change who gets the money or when they get it. You can “alter, amend, revoke, or terminate” the trust at any time.

The IRS Rule:
Section 2038 is about retaining the power to change the future enjoyment of the property. If you can still reach out and mess with the transfer – even if you never actually do – that asset is included in your estate. It doesn’t matter if the power is held with someone else; if you’re part of the control group, it’s a trap.

Takeaway:
If you want to get money out of your estate, you have to truly give up the right to control it. You have to cut the “strings” of amendment or revocation completely. A revocable living trust is a great tool, but be warned: the assets in it are generally not removed from your taxable estate for this exact reason.

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Trap 4: The ‘Self-Serving Trustee’ Move (IRC §2036 & §2038)

Scenario:
You create an Irrevocable Trust and gift a big chunk of your investment portfolio into it for the benefit of your family. You then name yourself as the sole Trustee, with the power to manage, invest, and – crucially – decide how much income to distribute to the beneficiaries (or even hold back).

The IRS Rule:
If you, as the giver, are also the Trustee and you have the power to distribute the income (or principle) to others or withhold it, this can be seen as retaining the right to designate who possesses or enjoys the income, which is a classic §2036 inclusion. If you have the power to amend or terminate the beneficial interests, that’s §2038.

Takeaway:
Never be the sole Trustee of a trust you fund if the goal is to get the property out of your taxable estate. This is a massive legal grey area that tax courts love to attack. Get an independent, third-party trustee who has no beneficial interest in the property.

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Trap 5: The ‘Voting Rights’ Stock Gift (IRC §2036(b))

Scenario:
You own a ton of stock in a small, privately held family business (a C-Corp or S-Corp). You gift the stock to your children, thinking you’ve moved a highly appreciating asset out of your estate. But, you keep the right to vote the stock.

The IRS Rule:
This is a specific, nasty subsection of 2036. If you transfer stock in a “controlled corporation” but keep the right to vote that stock, the entire value of the stock will be pulled back into your estate. They want you to give up both the value and the control.

Takeaway:
If you want to get corporate stock out of your estate, you must give up the voting rights as well. This is a common hurdle for wealthy families trying to pass on control of the company while minimizing taxes.

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Trap 6: The ‘Bailing Out Your Trust’ Power (IRC §2038)

Scenario:
You set up an irrevocable trust, but you structure it so you retain the power to “substitute assets of equivalent value.” This sounds innocent – it just lets you manage the investments, right? Well, maybe. If this power allows you, as the giver, to swap out low-basis assets for high-basis assets (or vice-versa) in a way that benefits you personally outside of a true fiduciary duty, the IRS can argue you’ve retained an amendment power.

The IRS Rule:
Even subtle, seemingly benign powers can be interpreted as the right to “alter or amend” the beneficial enjoyment of the trust, bringing the entire value back under the §2038 umbrella.

Takeaway:
The legal details matter. The language in your trust document must be absolutely clean. Never include powers that could even remotely be construed as allowing you to manipulate the trust for your own personal, financial benefit outside of the trust’s stated purpose.

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Trap 7: The ‘Transfer to a Partnership/LLC’ Loophole Fail (IRC §2036)

Scenario:
You own a lot of land or rental properties. You set up a Family Limited Partnership (FLP) or a Family LLC, and then gift interests in the partnership to your children. This is a common estate planning move. The fail comes when you continue to use the partnership’s money for your personal, non-business expenses, or you keep making all the decisions without consulting the other partners.

The IRS Rule:
If the facts show that you retained the de facto (in practice) control over the partnership assets and its distributions – meaning you treated the partnership account like your personal piggy bank – the IRS will claim that this is the functional equivalent of retaining enjoyment over the gifted property, pulling the entire value of the FLP/LLC back into your estate under §2036.

Takeaway:
The key to successful asset gifting via an FLP/LLC is acting like a true partner. Follow all partnership formalities: hold meetings, keep detailed minutes, and never, ever use the partnership’s money for your personal, non-business needs. Prove to the IRS that you truly gave up control.

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Why This Matters Now: You Need an Exit Plan

These String Provisions are all about the moment you die. The IRS looks back and asks one question: Did the decedent really give this property away, or were they just waiting until death to finally cut the strings?

Estate planning isn’t just about drafting a Will.
It’s about auditing your life and cutting every single financial and behavioral string you have to a gifted asset. If you have assets you want to protect from the estate tax, the time to deal with the 2036 and 2038 traps is right now, not later.

Look, the system is designed to be confusing so you trip up and pay more tax.

The single biggest takeaway is this: When you give an asset away, you must truly let go. What’s the biggest “gift” you’ve given that you secretly still use or control (even just a little bit)?

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Thanks for reading,
Sid Peddinti, Esq.
BA, BIA, LB/JD, LLM

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Sid Peddinti
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